ada orang yang tak tahu pun (atau cuba hidup dalam penafian) yang dia sedang menipu. Dia rasa dia tak tipu, sebab dia tak ada pun niat nak tipu. Sebenarnya anda menipu bila:-
- anda bawak toyol masuk bilik exam, walaupun itu adalah nota study..dan anda tahu anda tak nak tengok..tapi manalah tahu in case blur..bleh la jadi emergency exit.
- anda bagi tahu Guru Besar yang anda tertinggal baju kurung kat pintu rumah, padahal anda malas nak salin lepas ajar subjek PJK kat sekolah.
- anda padam history apa yang anda surf kat internet..apa yang anda chatkan di laman chat... sbb kalau padam pun...isteri/suami anda tahu..dan selalunya dia buat-buat tak tahu...kumpul bukti la tuh..
owhh..ok..sebenarnyaaku takde mood dan takde idea nak merapu apa..
Thursday, 11 March 2010
Monday, 1 March 2010
TEMUDUGA
Esok aku ada interview dengan SPP.. tak tau nak bersedia dengan apa..
PIPP, FPK, KBSR, ABCDEFG... otak sudah agak berkarat..
okay..sila baca buku..
PIPP, FPK, KBSR, ABCDEFG... otak sudah agak berkarat..
okay..sila baca buku..
Wednesday, 17 February 2010
He is a big boy now...!
Age: 7 months, 3 weeks and 6 days old
Current weight: 9.2kg
Harith Hannaan bin Hasrul Anwar
Tuesday, 16 February 2010
Membaca Jambatan Ilmu
Monday, 8 February 2010
We are amazing
My friend posted this on her Facebook Wall.. And I just can't stop myself from sharing this with you..
Whatever u give a woman, she will make it greater.
Give her sperm, she will give u a baby.
Give her a house, she will give u a home.
Give her groceries, she will give u a meal.
Give her a smile n she will give u her heart.
She multiplies and enlarges what she is given.
So if u give her crap, be ready to receive a ton of shit... Post it on your wall if u agree!
Sunday, 7 February 2010
5 ways to spot liars
A friend says you look beautiful (or ok) eventhough your new dress makes you look like a hideous creature from the outer space..
Another friend says your make up is ok eventhough a passing by stranger will mistake you as a Chinese Opera Actress..
You tell your friend that you still didn't finish reading the unique copy of the best-selling book she lent you because you are too busy with the baby, but the fact is you accidently left the book at your hometown 500km away..
Do we need this so-called white lies (or grey..what ever you wish to call it)..or can we tell if people are purposely lying right before your very own nose..? I read a book and it stated 5 ways (out of thousands) to spot that are lies in the air..
1) Hear the voices
Hear the voice cracks when it isn't the cracking type? Pay attention to voices changes.. (From my very own observation.. I tend to talk faster when I lie...( yes, I do lie sometimes)..as if I wanted to finish the lie faster... so I can be on the truth (aka my safer grounds) ground again..)
2) Watch the words
First- liars tend to use fewer first personal pronouns - words like I, me, mine than truth tellers.. They tend to use " The book was sent yesterday"..instead of " I sent the book yesterday"..
3) Look past shifty eyes..
This is an ancient way to spot liars.. They (or we) liars tend to be have unfocused eyes when lying.. we (or they) tend to look away when answering questions that were supposed to be easy to answer..lying make us difficult to maintain the eye gaze.. or sometimes.. people tend to increase their eye gaze while lying..maybe they concentrate more on the lying so that they forget to batt their eyelashes.. :)
4) Get better at Body Language
Mouth can lie..but not the body..
Liars are always (should be) look uncomfortable when lying.. pay attention to changes of body posture, hand gestures... It doesnt necessarily mean someone's lying..but it's a hot spot to evaluate ( I copied this very sentence from the book)..
5) Check for "emotional" leaks
The micro-expression that flit across people's faces often expose what they are trulu feeling or thinking.
For example..we may be able to spot a liar from her/his smile. True enjoyment will show not only from the involvment of lips but the muscles that orbit the eyes...from there, we can spot the smiling eyes..
and there are masking smiles which are made to cover anger, fear or sdness
Another friend says your make up is ok eventhough a passing by stranger will mistake you as a Chinese Opera Actress..
You tell your friend that you still didn't finish reading the unique copy of the best-selling book she lent you because you are too busy with the baby, but the fact is you accidently left the book at your hometown 500km away..
Do we need this so-called white lies (or grey..what ever you wish to call it)..or can we tell if people are purposely lying right before your very own nose..? I read a book and it stated 5 ways (out of thousands) to spot that are lies in the air..
1) Hear the voices
Hear the voice cracks when it isn't the cracking type? Pay attention to voices changes.. (From my very own observation.. I tend to talk faster when I lie...( yes, I do lie sometimes)..as if I wanted to finish the lie faster... so I can be on the truth (aka my safer grounds) ground again..)
2) Watch the words
First- liars tend to use fewer first personal pronouns - words like I, me, mine than truth tellers.. They tend to use " The book was sent yesterday"..instead of " I sent the book yesterday"..
3) Look past shifty eyes..
This is an ancient way to spot liars.. They (or we) liars tend to be have unfocused eyes when lying.. we (or they) tend to look away when answering questions that were supposed to be easy to answer..lying make us difficult to maintain the eye gaze.. or sometimes.. people tend to increase their eye gaze while lying..maybe they concentrate more on the lying so that they forget to batt their eyelashes.. :)
4) Get better at Body Language
Mouth can lie..but not the body..
Liars are always (should be) look uncomfortable when lying.. pay attention to changes of body posture, hand gestures... It doesnt necessarily mean someone's lying..but it's a hot spot to evaluate ( I copied this very sentence from the book)..
5) Check for "emotional" leaks
The micro-expression that flit across people's faces often expose what they are trulu feeling or thinking.
For example..we may be able to spot a liar from her/his smile. True enjoyment will show not only from the involvment of lips but the muscles that orbit the eyes...from there, we can spot the smiling eyes..
and there are masking smiles which are made to cover anger, fear or sdness
QUOTABLE QUOTES
The mark of a good book is it changes everytime you read it
Anderson Cooper
Thursday, 4 February 2010
So That's It
They've grown up..
I should realize..
That they don't need my advices anymore..
Being the eldest..
I just can't help it..
But don't worry...
It will come to a stop..
So That's It!!
Quote Of The Day
The best way to prepare for life is to begin to live.
Elbert Hubbard
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